Tangihanga
A profound farewell, grounded in tikanga.
Whether you are whānau, a close friend, or attending for the first time — this section will help you understand and participate with respect.
“A tangihanga is not just a funeral. It is a gathering of people, an expression of love, and a gift to the one who has left.”
What we cover
Understanding tangihanga.
What is a tangihanga
Understanding the purpose, tikanga, and meaning of a tangihanga — the most important farewell in te ao Māori.
The marae and tūpāpaku
The resting place of the tūpāpaku, the role of the whare, karakia, and the significance of each space on the marae.
Roles of whānau
What is expected of close family — from the moment of death through to the final days on the marae.
Attending as a visitor
How to attend a tangihanga with respect and grace — what to wear, what to say, how to behave, and what to expect.
Tangihanga away from the marae
When tangihanga is held at home, at a chapel, or in another location — tikanga and what changes.
After the tangihanga
Hākari, cleaning the marae, following up on te reo and tikanga — and looking after yourself in the days that follow.